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Life (and the afterlife) are about to get more awesome (or at least a lot less stressful and way more creative).

Alright, I admit it, death planning isn't exactly the most thrilling or sexiest way to spend a Saturday afternoon. But hey, here you are, journal in hand, ready to tackle the inevitable with a quirky grin (and maybe a slightly nervous sweat). Don't worry, death newbie, I'm here to guide you through this with zero doom and gloom, just a sprinkle of dark humor and a whole lot of helpful tips.

First things first, ditch the scary reaper image. Think of this journal as your "bucket list beyond the bucket list," a chance to craft a send-off as unique and fabulous as you are. Personally, I make changes to my plans and arrangements relatively often as technology, innovation, and cool ideas evolve. Needless to say, you're probably going to be able to get a spool of cotton candy and your caricature drawn as you see my body being shot into space. My thought: why limit yourself?? Now, grab your favorite pen (bonus points for sparkly gel pens!), and let's get started.

BTW, be sure to use our helpful blogs to get inspiration and a little education as you go along

1. Unleash Your Inner Rock Star (Obituary Edition):

Start by writing your obituary. But wait, hold the violins! This ain't your grandma's obituary. Think of it as your personal rockstar bio: list your achievements, quirks, and passions. Did you invent the world's best banana bread recipe? Mention it! Were you a champion yo-yoer? The world needs to know! This sets the tone for a funeral that celebrates the awesomeness that was you.

2. Destination: Six Feet Under (or Above):

Now, let's talk about your final destination. Do you dream of a Viking send-off with a flaming boat? Or maybe a serene nature burial under a favorite tree? Jot down your preferences. Remember, there are no wrong answers, just epic possibilities. (Bonus points for eco-friendly options that save Mother Nature some drama, and we have a blog or two about that!)

3. Who You Gonna Call? Ghostbusters? (No, Funeral Folks):

Next, think about your funeral crew. Who do you want by your side, orchestrating this grand finale? Family? Friends? A team of trained tap-dancing llamas? (Hey, no judgment!) Write down their names and contact information, so they can turn your wishes into reality.

4. The Fun Stuff (Because Death Doesn't Have to Be Dull):

Now, the cherry on top: the fun stuff. What kind of music do you want blasting at your funeral? Upbeat disco? Soulful ballads? A kazoo orchestra rendition of your favorite song? Write it down! Don't forget to include any special requests for readings, poems, or even a choreographed flash mob (because why not?). Make your farewell a party you'd be proud to attend (even if you're, well, not attending).

Remember, this journal is your playground. Don't be afraid to get creative, add doodles, stickers, or even glitter explosions (biodegradable, of course). This is your chance to laugh in the face of the inevitable, leave your mark, and ensure your final bow is as unique and fabulous as you are.

And hey, if you get stuck or need a cheerleader, I'm just a blog post away. So go forth, death planner extraordinaire, and embrace the quirky joy of planning your own goodbye! After all, who says death can't be a little bit fun?

Also, Be Sure to Storypromt!

Imagine your grandkids giggling over your epic childhood prank (spoiler alert, it involved shaving cream and a garden gnome) or your niece drawing strength from your messy, handwritten notes about facing your fears. That's the magic of sharing your stories, my dear friend!

It's not just about dusty old memories fading away (though let's face it, our brains are basically sieves). It's about building a bridge between your past and their future, a quirky love letter filled with laughter, tears, and everything in between.

Sure, grief might sting, but your stories can be a warm hug, a reminder of your resilience, and the twinkle in your eye. Imagine them finding a hidden note about your first love or a scribbled recipe for your grandma's secret apple pie – it's a treasure map leading straight to your heart.

And hey, your life lessons aren't just dusty old scrolls in a library. They're living, breathing wisdom that can guide them through their own adventures. So, ditch the perfection, grab a pen (or a glitter explosion!), and let your story flow. It's a gift you give them and a reminder that even though you're gone, your spirit lives on, shining bright and a little bit quirky, just like you. ✨